Marriage Audit 101: A Step-by-Step Relationship Audit
Welcome back to another enlightening episode of The You Matter Podcast. I’m Amanda Beilke, your Christian marriage coach and founder of the Love Map Institute. Today, we’re diving into an essential practice that every Christian wife should engage in at least once a year: a relationship audit for your marriage. If you’ve been feeling a little off in your relationship, whether it’s from emotional heavy lifting or disconnection, this episode is for you.
Join me as I guide you through a gentle yet powerful step-by-step audit designed to help you gain clarity and compassion for your marriage. This isn’t about blame or shame; it’s about understanding where your relationship stands and identifying the next steps toward deeper connection, even if your husband doesn’t listen to this episode with you.
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💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- How to conduct a thorough relationship audit to assess the emotional health of your marriage.
- The six key areas to evaluate for a clearer understanding of your marital dynamics.
- Journaling prompts to foster self-reflection and emotional awareness.
- Identifying red flags and green flags in your relationship to guide your next steps.
Key Takeaways:
- Taking the time to audit your marriage can lead to significant insights and healing.
- You are not alone in your struggles; many women face similar challenges in their marriages.
- With clarity and courage, you can change the tone and direction of your relationship.
📖 Favorite Quote from the Episode:
“It’s not too late to change the tone of your marriage.”
Want to Go Deeper?
Explore resources to support your journey:
- Download The Christian Wife’s Script Vault for phrases that invite emotional safety and clarity in your conversations.
Take time to reflect on your relationship audit and consider what steps you want to take next.
Your Challenge this Week: Complete the relationship audit and journal your insights to gain clarity on your marriage’s emotional landscape.
📝 Take Action:
- Share this episode with a friend who may need encouragement on their journey.
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Thank you for joining me in this important conversation about marriage, reflection, and faith. Remember, you matter, your marriage matters, and God is with you every step of the way.
Connect with Me:
🌐 Website: amandabeilke.com
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I can’t wait to connect with you next week for another episode of The You Matter Podcast!
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