Why He's Not Listening and How To Change That Tonight

Welcome back to another episode of The You Matter Podcast! I’m Amanda Beilke, the relationship coach and founder of the Love Map Institute, and I’m so glad you’re here. In today’s episode, I’m speaking straight to the Christian wife who’s wondering, “Why do I feel so alone in this marriage?” You love your husband. You want a God-centered home. But lately, it feels like you’re speaking two different languages.

We’ll talk about why he might not be hearing what you really mean that emotional connection looks like, and how to build it. In this episode, we will talk about how to stop walking away from conversations feeling unseen. I’ll also share a key principle from my Christian Wives Communication Cheat Code. You’ll leave this episode feeling seen, supported, and ready to shift the way you communicate, starting today.

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The You Matter Podcast with Amanda — Your Marriage Matters

💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

Why your communication might feel like it’s missing the mark
How to express your needs without sounding like you’re criticizing
The power of emotional connection in God’s design for marriage
A simple shift you can make today to start feeling heard

📌 Key Takeaways:

You’re not asking for too much. You’re asking for what God designed marriage to be.
Feeling unseen doesn’t mean your marriage is broken, it means you need a new framework.
Communication isn’t just about words, it’s about connection.

📖 Favorite Quote from the Episode:

”Your marriage doesn’t need fixing. It needs a new framework for your connection and for your communication. “

Want to Go Deeper?

Explore resources to support your journey: Download your copy of the Christian Wives Communication Cheat Code. A beautifully designed PDF to help you get through instead of shutting down.

📝 Your Challenge This Week:

Take 10 minutes to journal: